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  • Yoga for Safety and Stability: Nervous System Support

    Yoga for Safety and Stability: Nervous System Support

    A grounding yoga practice to help you feel grounded, supported, and steady in your body.

    When the nervous system doesn’t feel safe, the body responds.

    You may feel anxious, restless, disconnected, or exhausted but still wired. Sleep can feel hard to achieve. Digestion can feel off.

    This isn’t a mindset problem.

    It’s a regulation problem.

    Yoga therapy works with the body. When you create physical steadiness, slow your breath, and feel contact with the ground, Signals of safety are sent to your nervous system.

    Safety is not an idea.

    It is a sensation.

    That’s why you need yoga for safety and stability.

    What safety feels like in the body

    • Steady breath
    • Weight through the feet
    • A soft belly
    • A sense of “I am here”
    • Less urgency, more presence

    When these sensations increase, the nervous system shifts out of survival mode (fight or flight) and into regulation (rest and digest).

    A grounding practice for nervous system safety

    This sequence focuses on contact, compression, and slow rhythm — three key inputs that support regulation.

    1. Supported Squat or Seated Fold

    Feel your feet or sit bones rooted into the ground. If squatting use a block to rest your sit bones on. Taking the strain out of your legs when holding a deep squat.

    Stay for 5–8 slow breaths.

    2. Knee-to-Chest (Supine)

    Gentle compression across the belly.

    Breathe into the back ribs.

    3. Simple Forward Fold

    Allow the head and neck to soften.

    Exhale longer than you inhale.

    4. Standing with Awareness

    Stand with feet hip-width apart.

    Press down through all four corners of the feet.

    Pause. Notice.

    A simple grounding yoga sequence

    moving towards the mat for more relaxation

    A grounding yoga  practice for safety and stability

    Breath work for feeling safe

    Try this simple rhythm:

    Inhale 4

    Exhale 6

    Longer exhales stimulate the vagus nerve and support parasympathetic tone — the branch of the nervous system associated with rest and repair.

    No visualization required.

    Just breath. Just be here now.

    Everyday regulation practices

    • Walk slowly and feel your steps
    • Place one hand on your lower belly and breathe
    • Lean your back against a wall
    • Spend time outdoors noticing physical sensation

    These small inputs accumulate. Safety builds gradually.

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    A grounding meditation

    Try the practice outside for maximum benefit. 

    • Sit comfortably
    • Close your eyes
    • With each exhale, deepen your connection to the ground where you are sitting
    • Visualize a ball of red light at the base of your spine. The ball contains all you need to feel safe and secure
    • With each inhale, make the ball bigger

    If you want to use a mantra to support yourself, try repeating 

    I am here.

    Find an affirmation that resonates and repeat when meditating or say throughout the day

    • I belong
    • I am here
    • I have everything I need
    • With every breath, I release anxiety and fear
    • I inhale peace and exhale anything that no longer serves me

    More practices to help you feel stable and grounded

    • Roll your feet with a foam roller or a tennis ball
    • Walk outside barefoot
    • Take savasana or rest pose under a weighted blanket or cocoon yourself in a blanket
    • Try gardening. When we are close to the earth we naturally feel more grounded

    The foundation of healing

    Before insight.

    Before transformation.

    Before growth.

    There must be safety.

    Yoga therapy doesn’t force change. It restores the conditions where change can become possible.

  • 10 Yoga Poses for Menopause: Core Strength, Lose Belly Fat & Hormonal Support

    10 Yoga Poses for Menopause: Core Strength, Lose Belly Fat & Hormonal Support

    For women, it’s a fact that our body fat tends to shift to the abdominal or belly area in mid-life. This is because our estrogen levels drop during menopause. And it is the estrogen that has an effect on where our fat is stored in our bodies.

    Why our midsection changes during menopause

    Abdominal changes in midlife aren’t just about calories. Hormonal shifts, sleep disruption, and stress can affect metabolism and how your body stores energy.

    • Fluctuating estrogen affects insulin sensitivity
    • Chronic stress can elevate cortisol and favor central fat storage
    • Poor sleep disrupts appetite and glucose regulation

    Yoga doesn’t target fat loss directly, but it supports the systems that influence abdominal changes.

    learn more about how regulation shifts physiology

    Belly fat increases health risks

    That extra belly fat carries with it some serious health risks. Like for example;

    • High blood pressure
    • Sleep apnea
    • Heart disease
    • Sleep apnea
    • Diabetes
    • Cancers
    • Stroke
    • Fatty liver
    • Greater risk of early death

    The trouble with abdominal fat is that it’s not just subcutaneous fat (just below the skin). Belly fat also includes visceral fat, which is inside the abdomen and surrounds our internal organs.

    Why can yoga reduce belly fat?

    Some yoga poses directly target the abdomen so this means you will be working the muscles 

    As well as a good way of working your muscles yoga also helps to reduce stress, which is a contributing factor to belly fat.

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    Making a regular yoga practice part of your daily routine can help manage tension and anxiety. This improve your overall health and helps stop weight gain.

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    Yoga supports abdominal health by

    • Encouraging gentle core engagement
    • Improving digestive circulation
    • Supporting metabolic flexibility
    • Helping the body down-regulate stress patterns

    If you want to learn more about down-regulating stress and supporting your nervous system down load this free pdf

    10 minute nervous sys nervous system reset

    10 yoga poses to get rid of belly fat

    1. Boat Pose

    Boat pose for core strength

    This is a killer. Try work up to each boat for 5 breaths. And do that 5 times. You will feel it in your core and probably your hip flexors. Bend knees, or hold the back of your thighs as you need. 

    If this feels super intense. You can build up to boat. Start by doing a lying down version. Lie on your back on the mat and lift your legs up. Very like boat but your back is supported. 

    How to do it

    • Sit on your mat with bent knees and feet flat on the floor.
    • Lean back slightly, then engage your core, and lift up your feet.
    • Try to straighten your legs, and reach your arms out in front of you.
    • If you need to, you can hold the backs of your thighs.

    What are the benefits?

    • Strengthens your core muscles.
    • Tones and firms your tummy area.
    • Improves your balance and posture.

    2 . Plank Pose

    Plank pose for core strength and stability

    Planks are a great core exercise. As well as working your core, you strengthen your shoulders, arms, and legs.

    How to do it

    You can choose straight arms or balance on your forearms, let your wrists decide

    • Come to a high push-up position with your hands directly under your shoulders and your body in a straight line.
    • Don’t let your butt come too high.
    • Draw your belly button toward your spine to engage your abs,


    Hold for 30 seconds and do 3 times

    What are the benefits?

    • Engages the entire core, including the lower abdomen.
    • Builds strength in the arms, shoulders, and back.
    • Enhances overall body stability

    3. Side Plank Pose

    Side plank for core stability

    The side plank targets your obliques, which are the muscles at your waist. 

    How to do it

    • Working one side at a time
    • Lie on your side on the mat
    • Rise up onto your elbow or have a straight arm make sure wrist and shoulders are stacked
    • Make sure your lift your bottom hip away from the floor to work your obliques
    • If you can stack one foot above the other or as an extra challenge raise your upper leg

    If this is super challenging you can always start by keeping your lower legs on the mat and just doing small side hip raises 

    Do for three sets of 30 second planks per side.

    What are the benefits?

    • Great for your balance
    • Strengthens your core , arms and shoulders
    • Strengthens your obliques (waist)

    4. Downward Facing Dog Pose

    Down dog stretches the back body and strengthens core.

    Excellent pose for strengthening as it is weight bearing. Also amazing for stretching the whole back of your legs and back.

    How to do it 

    • Start on your hands and knees in tabletop 
    • Hands shoulder width apart and your knees hip-width apart.
    • With bent knees lift your tailbone up
    • Straighten your arms
    • Your legs can remain bent 
    • Gradually let your heels sink down , they may touch the floor and your legs may be straight it depends on how tight your hamstrings and calves are
    • Keep your head and neck loose and relaxed


    Hold for 5 breaths and then return to tabletop or go into child’s pose.

    What are the benefits?

    • Stretches and elongates the abdominal muscles
    • Relieves stress and tension in your lower back
    • Improves flexibility in the spine and hamstrings

    5. Cobra Pose

    Cobra strengthens back muscles and engages your core

    Strengthens your back, tones your belly and firms the waist.
    Improves your flexibility in your spine.

    How to do it

    • Lie on your stomach with your hands beside your ribcage
    • Squeeze your legs together like a cobra tail
    • Press your toenails into the mat
    • Lengthen your spine as you lift your head, shoulders, and chest, off the mat. pressing lightly into your hands
    • Keep your shoulders away from your ears, your neck long, look forwards, don’t arch the neck back 

    Hold for 5 breaths before releasing to the mat. Try and do this 2 or 3 times.

    A nice counter pose can be downward facing dog or child’s pose.

    What are the benefits?

    • Strengthens your back muscles
    • Tones your abdomen and waist
    • Improves spine flexibility

    6. Warrior 2

    Warrior 2 uses leg and core strength and encourages balance and focus.

    How to do it

    • Start in a high lunge
    • Turn your back foot out to a 90-degree angle
    • You can align your front heel with your back arch or take a wider stance depending on how it feels in your hips and pelvis
    • Bend your front leg and keep your knee behind your toes also make sure your knee doesn’t cave inward
    • Stretch your arms out to the sides and gazing over your middle finger

    Hold for 5 breaths then change sides.


    What are the benefits?

    • Engages your core and tones the waistline
    • Strengthens your legs and inner thighs
    • Helps balance and concentration

    7. Bridge Pose

    Bridge works core and glutes, inner thighs and pelvic floor

    This is a backbend. It is great for losing belly fat. It works abs and glutes and also amazing for pelvic your floor. The best way to work your pelvic floor is to put a block between your knees and squeeze it as you rise up to into bridge pose.

    How to do it

    • Lie on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on your mat
    • Lift your hips up towards the ceiling, keeping your feet and arms flat on the floor
    • Squeeze your glutes as you raise up your pelvis

    Work up to holding your bridge for 30 seconds, and repeat three times

    What are the benefits?

    • Activates your abdominal muscles
    • Stretches your spine and opens the chest
    • Tones your butt and thighs
    • Supports posture and pelvic floor

    8. Chair Pose

    Strengthen core, quads and inner thighs with chair pose

    For this pose you want to sink into an imaginary chair while keeping your core tight and engaged. If your shoulders allow try and have your forearms glued to your ears with hands pointing upwards.

    As you hold the squat position you are using your ab muscles to lift your torso and spine straight. It’s a great workout for your lower body. Make sure not to let your upper body collapse to get the best core benefits.

    How to do it

    • Stand with your feet together and reach your arms up overhead if your shoulders allow
    • Bend your knees, shift your weight into your heels, and hinge from the hips
    • Move your butt back as if sitting in a chair
    • Engage your core, lift your chest, keep your neck and spine long
    • Make sure your knees and shins are back, so you can still see your toes

    Hold your chair pose for 30 to 45 seconds, and repeat three times

    What are the benefits

    • Activates your core and lower abdominal muscles.
    • Strengthens your thighs and butt.
    • Improves posture and balance.

    9. Warrior 3

    Balance and strength for your core

    This is a superb weight bearing, balancing pose. You will feel it in your core and hip flexors.

    How to do it

    • Start in a standing position with your feet hip-width apart and arms at your sides
    • Put weight into your right leg
    • Lift your left leg back behind you off the floor
    • At the same time, hinge forward at your hips and bring your torso parallel to the mat. Hips face the floor.
    • Reach your arms forward, keeping them in line with your shoulders and your palms facing each other
    • Engage your core by pulling your belly button in

    Hold the pose for 5 breaths, then return to standing and repeat on the other side. Do this 2 or 3 times.

    What are the benefits?

    • Works on stability and balance
    • Tones the abdominal muscles
    • Strengthens the legs and glutes
    • Improves concentration and focus

    10. Bird Dog

    Core strength and stability. Balance and side body strength

    How to do it

    • Start on all fours in tabletop, your wrists should be under your shoulders and knees under your hips
    • Reach your right arm forward while extending your left leg backward
    • Keep your core muscles engaged and stretch from fingertips to toes

    Hold for 5-10 breaths and switch sides. Try and do 5 sets each side.

    For a challenge, rather than opposite leg and arm is to try same side arm and leg. This is great for working your waist and any weakness on one side over another.

    What are the benefits?

    • Engages the entire core to help lose belly fat
    • Strengthens the lower back muscles
    • Tones the butt and shoulders
    • Improves posture and balance

    Focus on the system, not the scale

    The goal isn’t to flatten your belly overnight. It’s to support core balance, metabolism, and overall regulation.

    Consistency, quality sleep, mindful breathing, and gentle, targeted yoga often lead to more meaningful, sustainable changes than high-intensity exercise alone.

    I would suggest the above 10 poses be combined with the yoga poses suggested in my article below.

    yoga for perimenopause and nervous system support

  • Partner Yoga Therapy: What it Is, Who it’s For & What it Looks
Like

    Partner Yoga Therapy: What it Is, Who it’s For & What it Looks Like

    Relationships don’t struggle because partners don’t care. They struggle because stress patterns live in the body. Over time, tension, protective habits, and unspoken emotions shape how we speak, listen, and respond.

    Partner yoga therapy offers a different entry point — not through debate or analysis, but through breath, awareness, and shared embodied experience. When two nervous systems begin to regulate together, communication softens, trust rebuilds, and connection becomes possible again.

    This isn’t about flexibility. It’s about presence.

    What makes couples yoga therapy different?

    Traditional talk therapy works through conversation. Yoga therapy works through the body.

    In our sessions, you and your partner are guided through simple, supported movement, breath practices, and restorative positions that help:

    • Reduce stress responses
    • Increase emotional regulation
    • Build attuned awareness
    • Create shared moments of calm

    When the nervous system feels safe, connection follows naturally..

    What a session feels like

    Each session begins with a gentle check-in — not to analyze, but to notice what’s present.

    From there, you’ll move through guided practices designed to support co-regulation. You may synchronize breath. You may practice supported postures that encourage trust and receptivity. You’ll be invited to observe sensation rather than react to it.

    Sessions close with integration — space to reflect, soften, and carry that awareness back into your relationship.

    The pace is calm. The environment is grounded. The work is subtle, but deeply impactful.

    Who this is for

    Partner or couples yoga therapy can support you if:

    • You feel disconnected but want to rebuild closeness
    • Communication feels reactive or tense
    • You’re navigating transition, stress, or life changes
    • You want to deepen intimacy in a grounded, embodied way

    You don’t need to be “good at yoga.” You simply need to be willing to show up.

    10 reasons you should try couples yoga therapy

    1. Strengthen your relationship

    When you have a couples yoga therapy session you work on breath work, mindful movement, and embodied awareness. This practice lets you to see yourself, your partner, and your relationship from a fresh perspective. What stands out during a session can help you gain new insights into your bond and can ultimately allow you to work towards strengthening your relationship.

    Couple doing yoga therapy pose

    2. Improve your communication

    Healthy relationships are built on good communication. To communicate well you must also listen. Listening is about understanding what your partner is trying to communicate to you. In couples yoga therapy you work together and practice communicating with each other.

    Couple struggling to communicate

    3. Spend some time with each other

    Spending time with together means you have shared experiences. This will strengthen the bonds of your relationship. Life gets busy. It’s easy to put your relationship on the back burner. Carving out “us” time sets the intention to spend quality time with your partner. 

    4. Create together

    Creating something together can be a powerful experience. Making yoga poses together can make you laugh and sometimes make you cry but the experience is something you get to share. The yoga poses in couples yoga therapy are created by you both as you come together to form one pose. You co-create a shape by communicating with your partner and together you find the shape that works for you both.

    Couple doing tree pose together

    5. Connect deeply with your bodies

    When you connect with your body in a yoga pose, you notice thoughts, feelings, and emotions. During a couples yoga therapy session, you will be coached to become embodied in your poses.  Embodiment is when you are in a state of focused awareness, feeling fully present and grounded in your body. Here you connect deeply with your body and can deepen your connection with your partner.

    6. Rediscover intimacy

    When you create poses together you see each other in a new light. You might be reminded of your partner’s positive qualities. Their strength, their humor, or their ability to be vulnerable. Being together, breathing together, supporting and being supported creates a special sort of intimacy. 

    7. Learn how to set boundaries

    Setting boundaries gives you the space you need, to flourish. In a relationship setting boundaries allows each partner to carve out the space they need for their mental and emotional well-being. By setting boundaries you know when to walk away from a toxic situation. In a yoga therapy session you practice setting boundaries. You experience the felt sense of boundaries. When stopping before a stretch is beyond your limits. Reigning back if you feel you have gone a little far in a posture. Or experiencing the feeling of space and freedom in some poses. Having a felt sense in your body can help reinforce a behavior. 

    8. Just be

    Being able to just be with what is. Being accepting of yourself for who you are. Accepting your partner for who they are. Accepting the situation you are in right now. Seeing things for what they truly are, and letting go of judgment and ego. From this new stance you can make healthy changes and move forward in a meaningful way. Accepting limitations of flexibility, strength and balance is all part of the yoga practice. What you practice on the mat you can take away with you and use in your life. 

    9. Release trauma

    In a yoga therapy session, you may notice thoughts, feelings, and emotions while you are in a posture. This is because our bodies, minds, and nervous systems have been present throughout our whole lived experience, so it is not surprising that some events from our past may still be residing in our body. The more embodied you are, the deeper you have dropped in, the more likely it is that emotions will surface. Couples yoga therapy is a safe space for you and your partner to explore what comes up for each of you during a session.

    10. Learn to love yourselves

    The yoga mat is a great place to remind yourself that your body and mind are strong. Here you may experience gratitude for your body, and appreciation for the breath that keeps you steady and grounded.

    Connection doesn’t begin with fixing each other. It begins with safety.

    If you and your partner are ready to explore a calmer, more attuned way of relating, I invite you to schedule a complimentary consultation. Together, we’ll explore whether couples yoga therapy is the right next step for you.

    Start your journey today

    Download your free 10 minute partner connection practice pdf

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  • Yoga Therapy for Pickleball Players: Injury Prevention & Nervous System Support

    Yoga Therapy for Pickleball Players: Injury Prevention & Nervous System Support

    Pickleball is fun, social and friendly! The rules are simple and the game is easy for beginners to learn, but can develop into a fast-paced, competitive game.

    USA Pickleball

    Injury prevention, mobility & smarter recovery

    Pickleball is fast, addictive, and surprisingly demanding on the body.

    Quick lateral movements. Repetitive shoulder swings. Sudden stops. Rotational torque.

    It’s no surprise many players begin noticing:

    • Shoulder tightness or irritation
    • Tennis elbow symptoms
    • Low back stiffness
    • Hip restriction
    • Knee strain

    Yoga for pickleball players isn’t about passive stretching. It’s about building joint stability, mobility, and recovery capacity so you can stay strong on the court — and keep playing long-term.

    Why pickleball players need more than stretching

    Most players focus on playing more.

    Few focus on recovery and structural balance.

    Pickleball creates repetitive patterns:

    • Dominant-side rotation
    • Forward shoulder positioning
    • Wrist and elbow strain
    • Sudden directional changes

    Therapeutic yoga helps counterbalance these patterns by:

    • Improving shoulder and scapular stability
    • Supporting elbow and wrist resilience
    • Restoring hip mobility for lateral movement
    • Strengthening deep core for rotational control
    • Supporting nervous system recovery after play

    This is about longevity — not just flexibility.

    Common pickleball aches – how yoga helps

    1. Shoulder Tightness & Rotator Strain

    Overhead swings and repetitive paddle motion overload the front of the shoulder.

    Focus on:

    • Thoracic spine mobility
    • Scapular stabilization
    • Posterior shoulder strength

    Helpful movements:

    • Thread the Needle
    • Low cobra (gentle spinal extension)
    • Supported plank variations

    2. Tennis Elbow & Wrist Irritation

    Repetitive gripping stresses forearm tendons.

    Support with:

    • Wrist mobility drills
    • Forearm strengthening
    • Gentle nerve-glide style movements

    Avoid aggressive stretching when inflamed.

    3. Hip Tightness & Lateral Instability

    Pickleball demands quick side-to-side movement.

    Without hip mobility and glute strength, knees and low back compensate.

    Helpful movements:

    • Low lunge variations
    • Chair pose for controlled strength
    • Side-lying leg lifts
    • Controlled single-leg balance work

    This builds stability for faster reaction time.

    A simple pre-play yoga warm-up (5–8 minutes)

    Before you step onto the court:

    1. Cat–Cow (spinal mobility)
    2. Dynamic low lunges (hip opening)
    3. Shoulder circles + scapular push-ups
    4. Light chair pose pulses
    5. Single-leg balance with gentle rotation

    This prepares joints and activates stabilizers.

    A post-play recovery sequence (8–10 minutes)

    After play, focus on down-regulation and tissue release:

    • Supine twist
    • Figure-four stretch
    • Supported forward fold
    • Gentle chest opener
    • 3–5 minutes slow diaphragmatic breathing

    This supports tissue recovery and helps your nervous system shift out of high alert mode.

    Better recovery time builds resilience.

    Great yoga poses for pickleball

    Yoga poses for pickleball players

    Here are some poses for you to try. Never stretch beyond your limits. You may notice an element of slight discomfort but you should not feel pain. Yoga is a balance of effort and ease, you should always be able to breathe comfortably in the poses.

    1. Cow Cat

    Releases tension in your spine and hips. Great after a long pickleball game.

    Cow cat pose

    2. Down Dog

    Stretches the back of your legs and back, strengthens your arms, shoulders and legs. Is weight bearing.

    Downward facing dog pose

    3. Cobra

    Stretches your psoas, and hip flexors, strengthens your back and glutes.

    Cobra pose

    4. Childs Pose

    A counter pose after cobra, this stretches out your lower back. Again super nice after a pickleball game if you feel it in your back.

    Childs pose

    5. Side Plank

    Is a weight bearing pose. Strengthens your arms, shoulders and core & helps with your balance.

    Side plank

    6. Twisted Triangle

    is also weight bearing. Works on your balance, strengthens your legs and core, opens up your chest and shoulders.

    Twisted triangle

    7. Tree Pose

    This is great for balance, your core strength and leg strength & working on sharpening your focus.

    Tree pose

    8. Pigeon Pose

    This is a great hip opener.

    Pigeon pose

    9. Bridge

    Strengthens your glutes, back and core

    Bridge pose

    10. Supine Twist

    Releases tension in your lower back.

    Supine twist

    11. Legs up the Wall

    A gentle inversion and a stretch for your back and legs, good for tired feet and legs after a game.

    Legs up the wall pose

    The difference between a yoga class and yoga therapy

    A general yoga class can be beneficial for strength and flexibility.

    Yoga therapy is different.

    It isn’t prescriptive or formula-based. It doesn’t assume every shoulder or knee needs the same “fix.”

    Instead, yoga therapy is responsive.

    Sessions are shaped around how your body is presenting that day — your current tension patterns, fatigue levels, recovery capacity, and overall load from sport and life.

    For pickleball players, that might mean:

    • Supporting recovery after a tournament weekend
    • A personalized yoga practice for resilience/recovery
    • Creating space in overworked shoulders
    • Building steadiness after repeated lateral strain
    • Helping your system settle after high-adrenaline play

    It’s less about correcting and more about restoring balance.

    Rather than pushing harder, the work is to help your body reorganize, adapt, and stay resilient over time.

    If you’re experiencing recurring irritation or simply want to support longevity on the court, a personalized approach can make all the difference.

    Find out more about my Personalized Yoga Therapy services here.

    Stay strong on the court

    Pickleball should feel energizing — not depleting.

    With intentional mobility work, targeted strength, and intelligent recovery, you can:

    • Improve reaction time
    • Reduce injury risk
    • Recover faster
    • Play longer

    Movement longevity is possible — when your training supports your body, not just your game.

    Why not book a yoga therapy session with me

    Frequently asked questions: Yoga for Pickleball Players

    Is yoga good for pickleball players?

    Yes. Yoga can improve mobility, balance, and recovery — all essential for pickleball performance. A therapeutic approach also helps reduce repetitive strain in shoulders, elbows, hips, and knees.

    Can yoga help prevent pickleball injuries?

    Yoga supports injury prevention by improving joint stability, muscular balance, and body awareness. It also encourages better recovery between games, which reduces overload patterns that lead to irritation.

    What are the most common pickleball injuries yoga can support?

    Common issues include:

    • Shoulder tightness or rotator strain
    • Tennis elbow
    • Wrist irritation
    • Hip stiffness
    • Knee discomfort

    A targeted yoga practice helps restore mobility while supporting stability in these areas

    Should I do yoga before or after pickleball?

    Both can be helpful.

    Before play, focus on dynamic mobility and activation.

    After play, choose slower stretches and breathing practices to support recovery and nervous system regulation.

    Is yoga therapy different from regular yoga for athletes?

    Yes. While regular yoga classes offer general benefits, yoga therapy is individualized and responsive. It adapts to how your body is functioning and recovering, rather than following a fixed sequence.

  • Yoga for Perimenopause: Nervous System Support to Ease Anxiety, Sleep & Hormonal Symptoms

    Yoga for Perimenopause: Nervous System Support to Ease Anxiety, Sleep & Hormonal Symptoms

    Perimenopause

    The transition years before menopause — can bring shifts in sleep, mood, energy, stress response, and physical comfort as hormone levels change. Yoga, when practiced with intention, supports the nervous system, helping the body become steadier, calmer, and more resilient during this transition. 

    This isn’t about flexibility or physical perfection. It’s about practical movement, breath awareness, and nervous system regulation.

    What is perimenopause?

    Perimenopause usually begins in your 40s (but can start earlier) and lasts until menopause — marked by the end of monthly periods. During this time, estrogen production changes and can affect many body systems, including sleep, mood, metabolism, and bone health. 

    Symptoms commonly reported include:

    • Hot flashes & night sweats
    • Sleep disturbance
    • Mood swings, irritability
    • Anxiety or low mood
    • Brain fog or memory changes
    • Fatigue
    • Reduced libido
    • Discomfort during sex
    • Joint stiffness or aches
    • Weight fluctuations  

    Each woman’s experience is unique.

    How yoga supports the nervous system in perimenopause

    Yoga helps by moving your system toward nervous-system regulation: it can reduce stress reactivity, improve breath coherence, and support calming responses. Practices that focus on steady breath and mindful movement help you shift out of fight-or-flight and into a more regulated state.

    This supports sleep, reduces tension, and can make symptoms feel more manageable.


    Managing stress and sleep changes during perimenopause begins with understanding how your nervous system regulates itself — learn more in my foundational guide to yoga therapy for nervous system regulation


    Benefits You May Notice

    Stress & Emotional Regulation

    Gentle yoga practices with intentional breathing help calm the sympathetic nervous system and support emotional balance.

    Better Sleep

    Slow, restful sequences before bed signal safety to the nervous system and may improve sleep quality.

    Physical Comfort & Mobility

    Targeted movement supports circulation, eases muscle tension, and encourages joint ease without strain.

    Support for Hot Flashes & Fatigue

    Reclined and restorative positions can ease nervous system reactivity and support cardiovascular ease. 

    Yoga practices that support perimenopause

    Below are some grounding practices organized by benefit and how they support your system:

    1. Forward bends are good for anxiety, irritability and insomnia

    Forward bends can help reduce anxiety, irritability, and tension. Folding forward and shutting out all your external stimuli will soothe your mind and reduce stress. When your nervous system signals that all is well, your adrenal glands and sympathetic nervous system can stop working so hard.

    Standing forward bend

    Rag doll or forward fold with bent knees is a pose to reset your nervous system

    Have a generous bend in your knees and fold from your hips. Let your head your upper body hang loose like a rag doll.

    Seated forward bend

    Supported forward fold to release tension and support the nervous system

    Bend your knees if you need to, fold from your hips, try with a pillow on your lap to support your upper body as it folds forward. Let your head hang, maybe build up the pillows to rest your forehead.

    2. Backbends help with fatigue, supported backbends help with hot flashes

    Gentle-supported backbends encourage your chest and the heart to open and increase your energy. It also improves respiration and circulation and helps lift spirits. Any tension in your body can make hot flashes worse. Use bolsters, blankets, or blocks to support your entire body. Reclined poses with proper support should cool and ease hot flashes.

    Reclined bound angle pose

    Supported poses help regulate the nervous system. Bound angle with a bolster regulates hot flashes

    This is one of the best therapeutic yoga poses for peri-menopause. It can be tremendously beneficial with hot flashes and fatigue.

    Press the soles of your feet press together. Let your legs open like a butterfly. Put pillows on the outside of your knees to support your legs as they open. Recline and use as many pillows you need to support your back and head. Your head can be level with your back there is no need for a big arch in your back in this back bend. Make it feel good. Hang here for 20 breaths or so.

    Supported Bridge pose

    Use a block under your sacrum for support

    Bridge pose can be amazing for your pelvic floor muscles. Whilst in the pose you can place a block between your knees and squeeze to activate inner thigh muscles. Also do your Kegels whilst your hips are raised. Link below for how to guide. For a supported backbend place a block under your sacrum (flat bit of your pelvis).

    Kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. These muscles support the uterus, bladder, small intestine and rectum. Kegel exercises also are known as pelvic floor muscle training.

    The Mayo Clinic

    3. Inversions help with depression & brain fog

    Everything you do with your body can affect your thoughts and attitude. Sometimes something as subtle as a shift in posture can lighten a dark mood. Inversions can help improve a depressed mood. In effect, they are turning everything upside down. Of course being upside down also increases blood to the brain.

    Legs up a wall

    Legs up the wall pose

    Start by sitting sideways to the wall with your hip pressed against the wall. Lie back and swing the legs up. Use a pillow under your head if needed. This should feel comfortable.

    Triangle pose

    Triangle pose

    Triangle pose is great for preventing osteoporosis, because it is weight-bearing. stimulates your abdominal organs and calms your nervous system. It also helps reduce anxiety & can help with digestive issues.

    Modifications for Comfort

    Use blankets, bolsters, blocks, or cushions for support

    Breathe slowly: long inhales, gentle exhales

    Move at your nervous system’s pace — not past it

    Try positive affirmations

    These allow you to challenge any negative thoughts. If you do it every day, can start to retrain the way you think. You can remove the negative self-talk and increase your self-esteem. Pick something that resonates with you.

    The morning is a time to create an intention for the day.

    • I am strong, capable & kind.
    • I have the power to change my story.
    • I choose to respond to this challenge with grace and positivity.
    • I will not worry about tomorrow. I will enjoy today.

    At night is a more reflective time. Perhaps a time for gratitude

    • I am grateful for my supportive family & friends.
    • I am grateful for the growth I experienced today.

    Try mudras

    Mudra means seal mark or gesture in Sanskrit.

    Mudras are traditionally practiced to intensify the effects of your yoga or meditation practice and enhance focus. They can also be a, practical addition to your meditation by adding focus to your hands.

    The Yoni Mudra is dedicated to the female Hindu goddess Shakti. Yoni means womb. The practice of Yoni Mudra is associated with strength and power.

    Yoni mudra yoga pose

    You place your thumbs together and pointed upwards, index fingers together pointed downwards, press the other fingers together. Sit comfortably and follow your breath.

    As you breathe slowly, feel the movement beneath your hands. The shape offers gentle structure, which can help the nervous system settle and organize.

    Used this way, the mudra supports diaphragmatic breathing, interoceptive awareness, and a felt sense of stability — honoring tradition while remaining practical and embodied.

    What happens after menopause?

    If your periods have stopped for a year or more you are described as being post-menopausal.

    In post-menopause, your menopause symptoms may ease or stop altogether, but some women continue to have symptoms for longer.

    Because your body is producing less estrogen there can be an increased risk of some health conditions like;

    • cardiovascular (heart) disease
    • osteoporosis (weak bones)
    • urinary tract infections (UTIs)

    So it’s really important to make sure you have a good, healthy diet and lifestyle, you exercise and keep going to your regular screenings.

    When to seek personalized support

    Yoga supports regulation and comfort but isn’t a replacement for medical care. If symptoms feel overwhelming or persistent, pairing yoga with professional guidance and lifestyle support provides the strongest foundation.

    Ready for personalized yoga therapy?

    If you want support tailored to your history, nervous system reactivity, and goals — not a generic sequence — explore our yoga therapy sessions designed for perimenopause support.

  • Yoga Therapy and The Chakra Model: Restore Balance & Support your Nervous System

    Yoga Therapy and The Chakra Model: Restore Balance & Support your Nervous System

    A Nervous System–Informed Framework

    In yoga therapy, the chakra model is used as a structured lens — not as mysticism, but as a way to understand how stress patterns organize in the body.

    It offers a practical map for noticing where we feel steady or unsettled, open or guarded, energized or depleted.

    Rather than treating chakras as literal energy centers, we use the framework to explore how breath, posture, emotion, and attention interact. It becomes a guide for restoring regulation across systems.

    Ancient Map, Modern Physiology

    Many of the themes traditionally associated with the chakra system parallel what we understand today through physiology:

    • Autonomic nervous system balance
    • Breath rhythm and efficiency
    • Muscular holding patterns
    • Stress response and recovery
    • Emotional processing and clarity

    In this context, the work is not about “balancing energy.”

    It is about improving regulation and resilience.

    When the nervous system feels supported, the body reorganizes.

    • Breath deepens.
    • Tension softens.
    • Focus steadies.
    • Presence returns.

    How It’s Applied in a Session

    A chakra-informed yoga therapy session may include:

    • Specific breath ratios to shift autonomic tone
    • Gentle, targeted movement to reduce protective tension
    • Supported positioning to foster neural safety
    • Interoceptive awareness practices
    • Guided reflection for integration

    The framework simply provides structure. The goal is sustainable regulation — not activation, not intensity, but steadiness.

    Yoga therapy meets you where you are at

    Whether stress feels physical, emotional, or mental, this integrative approach supports the whole system — helping you move toward greater stability, clarity, and ease.

    How to understand the chakra model

    Artistic illustration of the chakra model by Fay Dwyer c-IAYT

    Root Chakra

    I am safe

    Root chakra is the first step on the journey of personal development and relates to embodiment and befriending your body.

    Sacral Chakra

    I am creative

    Sacral chakra is the dwelling place of your self and relates to self-awareness.

    Solar Plexus Chakra

    I am strong

    Solar plexus chakra is the center of your personal power. This chakra govern identity, as well as personal freedom, choice, and authenticity. Self-love, self-acceptance, and acknowledgment of your worth are related to this chakra.

    Heart Chakra

    I am loved

    The heart chakra is associated with unconditional love, compassion, and joy. It is the source of profound truths that cannot be expressed in words.

    Throat Chakra

    I am truthful

    The throat chakra is concerned with your ability to speak your truth and is therefore truth in action.

    Third Eye Chakra

    I am insightful

    The third eye is the chakra of your intuition. Discernment comes from a balance of intellectual reasoning combined with your intuition and gut instincts. Discernment is your ability to perceive what is true.

    Crown Chakra

    I am divine

    On an emotional level, the crown chakra generates devotion, inspirational and prophetic thought, mystical connections, and transcendental ideas. Opening of the crown chakra brings bliss and therefore relates to flow.

    Yoga therapy, the chakras and self care

    Although in my sessions I don’t prescribe yoga poses for blocked or imbalanced chakras I do like to draw on yogic philosophy and teachings. Here is a fun list of 7 self-care ideas related to your chakras for you try. Start at the root and do one each weekend.

    Chakras and self-cares fun way a list of 7

    If you’re ready to experience a more regulated and resilient way of being, I invite you to connect with me and we can explore what personalized yoga therapy can offer

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  • How Partner Yoga Therapy Helps Couples Connect & Reduce Stress

    How Partner Yoga Therapy Helps Couples Connect & Reduce Stress

    Relationships are rarely perfect. Even the most loving partnerships can feel distant at times. Stress, daily distractions, and unspoken tension can quietly create space between partners, leaving connection and intimacy harder to access. Partner yoga therapy offers a gentle, body-based approach to restore that connection — through awareness, movement, and shared presence.

    Unlike acrobatic or performance-focused partner yoga classes, partner yoga therapy emphasizes relational attunement and nervous system regulation. It is designed to help partners slow down, become more aware of themselves and each other, and cultivate a sense of calm and presence that can ripple into daily life.

    What partner yoga therapy looks like

    Partner yoga therapy sessions are guided, intentional, and accessible for all levels. Each session provides a safe space for partners to explore connection without judgment or expectation. Typical components include:

    • Gentle, supported partner-based postures — movements designed to foster trust, alignment, and attunement.
    • Breath and co-regulation exercises — practices that help partners synchronize and calm their nervous systems.
    • Mindful observation of sensation and emotion — noticing internal experience without reacting, allowing awareness to grow.
    • Restorative or grounding techniques — supporting relaxation and presence.
    • Guided reflection — integrating the practice into daily life and relationships.

    The emphasis is always on presence over performance. This is not about flexibility, athletic skill, or showing off. It is about learning to slow down together and notice what is happening in your bodies and your connection.

    Restoring presence in partnership

    Even in the closest relationships, it’s easy to drift apart. Stress, distraction, and unspoken tension can create distance, leaving partners feeling disconnected despite love and intention.

    Partner yoga therapy creates intentional space to restore that presence. Through shared movement, coordinated breath, and mindful attention, partners are invited to relate from calm and attunement rather than reactivity. This practice cultivates awareness of oneself, of your partner, and of the space between you — the subtle rhythms that make connection possible.

    Over time, this gentle, consistent practice can shift relational patterns naturally. Partners often notice:

    • A greater sense of calm and emotional regulation
    • Improved communication and less reactivity
    • Heightened awareness of each other’s needs and rhythms
    • Renewed trust, intimacy, and emotional closeness relationship is the coming together of two people, to form an “us”.  For a relationship to be strong it needs to be nurtured. 

    Who partner yoga therapy supports

    Partner yoga therapy can benefit anyone looking to deepen connection and communication in their relationship. It is particularly helpful for partners who:

    • Feel disconnected or distant
    • Notice tension or reactivity in daily interactions
    • Are navigating life transitions or stress
    • Seek a body-based complement to talk therapy
    • Want to cultivate presence, patience, and emotional attunement

    No prior yoga experience is required. The only prerequisite is a willingness to show up together and explore shared presence.

    Co-regulation works best when each person’s nervous system can shift smoothly between activation and rest. My nervous system regulation guide explains why this matters in practice



    Why partner yoga therapy works

    The practice works because connection begins in the body. When partners learn to move, breathe, and pause together, they regulate not only themselves but each other. Nervous systems calm, attention softens, and a sense of relational safety grows. These subtle shifts can carry beyond the session, creating more ease, understanding, and closeness in everyday life.

    Partner yoga therapy offers a unique pathway for relationships — one that honors both individuality and togetherness, supporting connection in a way words alone cannot.

    Begin Your Partner Yoga Therapy Journey

    Connection is not about fixing your partner or forcing understanding. It begins with presence, awareness, and safety. Partner yoga therapy provides a guided, embodied space to cultivate all three.

    If you and your partner are ready to explore a calmer, more attuned way of relating, schedule a complimentary consultation. Together, we can discover how this therapeutic practice can support your connection, presence, and shared well-being.

    Download your free 10 minute partner connection practice pdf

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  • Personalized Yoga Therapy for Anxiety & Nervous System Regulation

    Personalized Yoga Therapy for Anxiety & Nervous System Regulation

    What is yoga therapy?

    Yoga therapy is a one-to-one, evidence-informed approach designed to support nervous system regulation.

    Rather than a general yoga class, yoga therapy is individualized. Sessions are tailored to your stress patterns, psychological history, emotional load, and goals. The focus is not performance — it’s regulation.

    Through targeted movement, breath-work, guided awareness, and restorative positioning, yoga therapy helps your nervous system shift out of chronic stress patterns and into steadier states of balance.

    Yoga therapy is the process of empowering individuals to progress toward improved health and well-being through the application of the teachings and practices of Yoga.

    International Association of Yoga Therapists (IAYT)

    How yoga therapy can support your nervous system

    Modern life keeps many of us in full activation mode — wired, fatigued, or stuck in cycles of stress. Yoga therapy works directly to help change these patterns.

    In sessions, we:

    • Use breath to influence autonomic regulation
    • Apply gentle movement to discharge tension safely
    • Build interoceptive awareness (body-based awareness)
    • Support vagal tone through paced practice
    • Develop sustainable home practices for daily regulation

    Over time, this builds resilience, improves stress recovery, and increases your capacity to respond instead of react.

    A structured, professional approach

    My work is grounded in the Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy (PRYT) method.

    PRYT integrates somatic practice with present-moment dialogue to deepen awareness and support nervous system stability. It is professional, structured, and collaborative — not performative or prescriptive.

    Combining breathwork, gentle poses, meditation, and guided self-inquiry, designed to help practitioners safely embrace their physical limits in order to gain mental and emotional insights into themselves. It does not replace psychotherapy (talk therapy), but rather provides a somatic pathway to a deeper understanding of the self.

    Michael Lee, Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapy

    I believe a yoga therapy session should feel safe, steady, and purposeful. A space to explore physically, mentally, and emotionally — at a pace that works for you. t’s where you reconnect with your body and gain insight you can actually use.

    What yoga therapy can help with

    Yoga therapy for nervous system support may assist with

    • Chronic stress and burnout
    • Anxiety and hypervigilance
    • Sleep disruption
    • Persistent pain
    • Fatigue and overwhelm
    • Emotional reactivity
    • Recovery from high-demand professions or athletics

    The work is steady, paced, and responsive to your system’s capacity.

    A steadier way forward

    If you feel constantly “on,” wired but tired, or disconnected from your body, yoga therapy offers practical tools to restore stability.

    No need to push harder.

    You don’t need to buy wellness products.

    You need regulation.

    Yoga therapy helps you build it — skillfully and sustainably.

    Work with me and book a session here